Poems

                                                Those Who Pass

                                                Slowly , slowly  they pass by
                                                Those who breastfed and put us to bed
                                                who worked hard to send us
                                                to schools and colleges
                                                those who scolded and punished us
                                                who revered and  envied us,
                                                hugged and desired us,
                                                those who longed for our death,
                                                one by one, slowly, slowly.

                                                Slowly ,slowly
                                                A part of us too passes with them,
                                                a small part, a breath, some blood,
                                                a bit of pollen.

                                                All that we climbed up we climb down
                                                All that we climb down we walk
                                                All that walk fall, like leaves,
                                                the greener side down,
                                                clung to earth.

                                                A breeze blows above us
                                                The memories of those who passed
                                                envelope us with the odours of
                                                pepper, garlic, wild jasmine.
                                                Slowly, we come alive, like some statues
                                                coming alive at midnight,
                                                loiter along the ancient times
                                                and recall that old life , line by line,
                                                through measured verses.

                                                The river goes on singing,
                                                the primal song of those who do not die
                                                It cuts across the banks, like time
                                                that has no borders, bodiless,
                                                slowly,
                                                slowly.

                                                One Grief

                                                One grief smells my feet
                                                like a puppy, finds I am not his man
                                                and rushes to my neighbour, wagging his tail.

                                                A bark. A cry.

                                                A joy caresses my cheeks
                                                like a  kitten: until another grief
                                                comes crawling by
                                                and winds around to choke me

                                                Then Suddenly

                                                I saw myself among the dead
                                                hiding my face in an umbrella in the rain,
                                                in a black cloak,
                                                like an evening shadow.

                                                I wanted to sing a song, a strange song
                                                about horses, cranes and ships,
                                                just a song that has neither flowers nor birds,
                                                neither sunrises nor  love-affairs.

                                                But my lips had been sewn together;
                                                my ears , filled with earth.

                                                Then suddenly the sun rose.

                                                Some Things We Take

                                                Some things we take,
                                                some we give.
                                                Death makes a balance sheet. 

                                                Heaven is a lie, but
                                                Hell, yes, it exists.
                                                
                                                Just Now 

                                                What happens always
                                                is what happens ‘now’.
                                                Time has no door to enter us
                                                except this moment.

                                                Valmiki knew this,
                                                Vyasa and Homer too,
                                                why, even Dante.

                                                But we forget that.
                                                So we think infinity is
                                                somewhere outside us
                                                and eternity is what we confront
                                                only once we die.

                                                We can be indifferent to history,
                                                but do not expect history to spare  us.

                                                So let us speak about the rain
                                                pouring down this moment in a torrent
                                                this flower blossoming now
                                                this eye opening in front of us, 
                                                and this blood being shed 
                                                before our eyes, just now.
                                                
                                                Knife

                                                The knife is stuck deep 
                                                in the soil, on the green tree, 
                                                on a woman’s  chest 
                                                The one who made it does not see it 
                                                His job is done once it has been made.

                                                Learning Languages

                                                I would love to learn languages,
                                                Santali, Balochi, Catalan, Slovenian.
                                                In all these tongues 
                                                we can say ‘love’; 
                                                we can say ‘kill’ too.

                                                It is too late;
                                                no time even to design a time-piece
                                                may be, I can design a verse-piece

                                                Languages walk past the age of love
                                                bent over a walker.

                                                I too will go,
                                                to the land where I have plenty of time
                                                to learn languages
                                                and then 
                                                I will kill you with love.

                                                No Time 

                                                There is no more time, but
                                                there are some evil deeds 
                                                yet to accomplish.
                                                To divide  lovers,
                                                to spread  hate and harvest death,
                                                to lead a revolution 
                                                that denies happiness 
                                                to everyone, equally.

                                                All this calls for hard work.
                                                I have the time for it,
                                                and the impatience too.
                                                    
                                                Answers

                                                He went on 
                                                shouting out the answers.

                                                But the questions, 
                                                They went on screaming,
                                                ‘O, benevolent  one, 
                                                please look at us 
                                                at least once ’.

                                                To See, To Look 
                                                
                                                We do not fail to see anything
                                                but we fail to look.
                                                We hear, but do not listen.

                                                The map of an unborn country 
                                                painted by a young man’s blood
                                                on the crowded road,
                                                the cry of a woman, as if from a coffin,
                                                drowned in the mob’s tumult,  
                                                a piece of adolescent flesh salted with tears
                                                from a boy from Arunachal
                                                in the platter of meat 
                                                served in the hotel,
                                                the odour of a mother burning
                                                among the scents from the flowershop,
                                                the manacles of the innocent man,
                                                his eyes closed, seated next to the policeman.

                                                Only when a gentleman with dark glasses
                                                burns our thighs with his cigarette
                                                we stare at him. 

                                                Poverty 

                                                To see how beautiful poverty is
                                                you need to see the Garo woman 
                                                walking along the city street.

                                                The crown of feathers tucked among her hair, 
                                                the tattoos that turn her body into a parrot,
                                                the many-coloured bangles that adorn her 
                                                from her wrists to the shoulders
                                                like the annual rings of a wild teak ,
                                                the  stone necklaces dangling
                                                from her neck up to her waist 
                                                reminding you of Goddess Lakshmi
                                                in the calendar-picture.
                                                But in the belly concealed by the loin cloth
                                                in black and red competing for glamour,
                                                only an unquenched  fire. 
                                                
                                                Had You Been A Poet…
                                                (To late Stephen Hawking) 

                                                World just passed by 
                                                like a cat, its fur rubbing against you. 
                                                It did not expect you to discover 
                                                a theory of everything anyway.  

                                                The dark matter remains dark 
                                                even after your entry. 
                                                This tiny being on this little planet 
                                                knows only one secret: 
                                                that secrets are secrets-
                                                not that it is no knowledge. 

                                                Galaxies have been made not by laws alone,
                                                but by accidents too,
                                                like our own small lives. 

                                                Definitions have little scope, then,
                                                whether of Karma or of Brahma. 
                                                Our brain is too small, and universes, 
                                                huge, infinite, mysterious: enough for 
                                                many generations of philosophers.  

                                                Universes would have been, even without us. 
                                                They are indifferent to our discoveries. 

                                                Had you been a poet, you
                                                would have understood things better:
                                                like Kabir, Allama Prabhu,
                                                or Hafiz. 
                                                My moon rises in a valley in Damascus,
                                                shedding light on the Arabian Nights.

                                                My sun sets over the Atlantic,
                                                spreading darkness from Lithuania to Liberia

                                                My stars illumine the Pacific,
                                                Turning each of her islands into gold.

                                                My lexicon comes from all over the world
                                                from Iran and China, Portugal and Rome,
                                                from Netherlands and Arabia
                                                The solid gravity of Sanskrit over
                                                the liquid music of Tamil:
                                                a Himalaya in the Mediterranean.

                                                My bread comes from Vidarbha
                                                where peasants commit suicide;
                                                my water, from Ganga
                                                where orphan corpses bob up and down
                                                The song I sing is of the vanishing Nila river,
                                                the death I die, of the pitch-black Yamuna.

                                                I sleep alone, remembering our Syrian driver
                                                Khalid, of Aleppo. Is he alive still?
                                                At times a homeless Kurd appears in a dream;

                                                at times, a Rohingya refugee raises his roofless head.

                                                I do not know Gikuyu,
                                                I haven’t even been to Palestine.

                                                I set fire to every proof of my having lived;
                                                only one thought remained in that ash
                                                on earth like a flightless bird.
                                                It still lays eggs;
                                                one day, one of them may hatch
                                                a blazing sun that brightens up my village too,
                                                my memories may reappear as its black spots.

                                                Only words fall on my begging bowl:
                                                Kindness. Love. Sacrifice.
                                                Words.
                                                The Black Hole of words.
                                            
                                                Birds come after me, as if 
                                                I were a walking tree.

                                                I spread my crown for them, 
                                                like the mushroom in the Russian children’s tale
                                                growing ever wider to shelter 
                                                birds and beasts from rain.

                                                I grow many hands,
                                                from the legs for the parrots,  
                                                from the hip for crows,
                                                from the belly and the back 
                                                for the cranes, eagles,
                                                kingfishers and  owls
                                                and tiny twigs for 
                                                sparrows and treepies. 

                                                They fruit, my head opens out
                                                like a tree top , and bats hang from them 
                                                undefined, between bird-ness and beastliness.
                                                My hairs blossom, butterflies looking for honey
                                                surround my head like a halo.

                                                As I watch each bird turns into a letter:
                                                an alphabet of birds.

                                                The wind passes between them, 
                                                they make many noises,  
                                                order themselves into lines,
                                                resound with suggestions,
                                                change places, combine 
                                                to become something else, 
                                                sing and tell stories.

                                                Vanished hills and forests
                                                crowd their memory,
                                                dried up pools and streams, 
                                                roofs and telephone cables
                                                with  screams passing through them
                                                and the scalding grammar 
                                                of electric current.

                                                A tree is a dictionary of leaves.
                                                My    branches fill with poems,
                                                the history of clouds*.  
                                                *A Histroy of Clouds: the title of a new collection of poems by Hans Magnus Enzensberger 
                                            
                                                In a flash I recall all the
                                                misplaced objects of my life:
                                                the ten lambent marbles
                                                forgotten under the dry leaves
                                                beneath the mango tree,
                                                the umbrella left behind in Apu's saloon
                                                the day rain failed to turn up,
                                                the pen that dived from the pocket
                                                while climbing the cashewnut tree
                                                on the way back from the village school,
                                                the sky-blue shirt remaining
                                                in a hotel wardrobe in Riga,
                                                the long list of books lent, never returned,
                                                some unredeemed debts, a few unrequited loves.

                                                Forgetfulness alone never forgot me.
                                                As I fell in love I began misplacing my heart,
                                                metaphors as I began to scribble poetry.
                                                Later, looking at the hills, I began to feel
                                                the sky had misplaced them and
                                                the clouds had misplaced the rainbow.

                                                I have recently begun to suspect
                                                this very earth with us on it
                                                has been misplaced by God.
                                                In the order He recalls, He claims back:
                                                woods, rivers, us.
                                            
                                                I have never seen you;
                                                may be I never will.
                                                Still I know you are there,
                                                like some unseen stars,
                                                like the first wonder-filled flap
                                                of the just-created bird,
                                                like some half-formed words
                                                on the frontiers of language,
                                                like some planets,
                                                fuming fluid yet.

                                                2
                                                Your crystal-voice
                                                quickens my heartbeat,
                                                like coffee, like pepper,
                                                like jazz, like drugs.

                                                3
                                                You are a dripping tunnel
                                                with light at the end.
                                                I long to get wet
                                                passing through you
                                                listening to the songs
                                                of the forest-birds
                                                that thrill the wind.

                                                4
                                                The scent of how many flowers
                                                from your body shining far-away
                                                Is igniting my senses?

                                                5
                                                Let those hands keep moving,
                                                their bangles laughing,
                                                shaping the fragile idols of love.

                                                6
                                                Who said life is a tree
                                                that blossoms just once
                                                and then dries up?
                                                This is that moment,
                                                unrepeatable, of blossoming.

                                                7
                                                I am a grain of sand
                                                and you, the endless sea.
                                                Let me multiply and be the earth
                                                to contain all of you?

                                                8
                                                I tremble all over like
                                                the tallest building
                                                in a quake-hit city.
                                                You are the oldest of its roads.
                                                Split open so that I may
                                                tumble down to be
                                                devoured by your womb
                                                and open my fresh eyes
                                                into the light of a city
                                                yet to be born.
                                            
                                                My granny was insane.
                                                As her madness ripened into death,
                                                my uncle, a miser,
                                                kept her in our storeroom
                                                wrapped in straw.

                                                My granny dried up, burst;
                                                her seeds flew out of the window.
                                                The sun came, and the rain;
                                                one seedling grew up into a tree,
                                                whose lusts bore me.

                                                Can I help writing poems
                                                about monkeys with teeth of gold? 
                                            
                                                We need rice, salt,
                                                chilly, firewood;
                                                we can do without poetry.
                                                Yet poetry will come back
                                                like rice,
                                                the seed of the earth,
                                                boiled and cleaned of husk and bran,
                                                overflowing every measure
                                                every granary and godown;
                                                like salt,
                                                the memory of the sea,
                                                watering our mouths,
                                                burning us with pain
                                                in order to heal our wounds,
                                                nourishing our roots;
                                                like chilly,
                                                the lust of the clay,
                                                turning hot our lips, tongues,
                                                breasts, waists, veins and nerves;
                                                like the firewood,
                                                the bones of the forest,
                                                their marrow melting sizzling
                                                burning slow with tiny flames,
                                                chanting, in a single breath,
                                                rice salt chilly firewood poetry.
                                            
                                                The mad have no caste
                                                or religion. They transcend
                                                gender, live outside
                                                ideologies. We do not deserve 
                                                their innocence.

                                                Their language is not of dreams
                                                but of another reality. Their love
                                                is moonlight. It overflows
                                                on the full-moon day.

                                                Looking up they see
                                                gods we have never heard of. They are
                                                shaking their wings when 
                                                we fancy they are
                                                shrugging their shoulders. They hold
                                                that even flies have souls
                                                and the green god of grasshoppers
                                                leaps up on thin legs.

                                                At times they see trees bleed, hear
                                                lions roaring from the streets. At times
                                                they watch Heaven gleaming
                                                in a kitten's eyes, just as 
                                                we do. But they alone can hear
                                                ants sing in a chorus.

                                                While patting the air
                                                they are taming a cyclone
                                                over the Mediterranean. With 
                                                their heavy tread, they stop
                                                a volcano from erupting.

                                                They have another measure 
                                                of time. Our century is
                                                their second. Twenty seconds,
                                                and they reach Christ; six more,
                                                they are with the Buddha.

                                                In a single day, they reach
                                                the big bang at the beginning.

                                                They go on walking restless, for
                                                their earth is boiling still.

                                                The mad are not
                                                mad like us. 
                                            
                                                I see my thirty-year old daughter
                                                again as a six-month old.
                                                I bathe her,wash away
                                                the dust and muck
                                                of thirty years.

                                                Now she glistens like
                                                a short Amichai poem
                                                in the liquid glow of Heaven.
                                                The little towel
                                                gets wet with Time.

                                                Beethoven raises his
                                                more than human hands
                                                turning the window-bars
                                                into piano-keys.

                                                My daughter
                                                emerges out of a symphony
                                                to hug me with
                                                her rose-soft hands.

                                                Outside, rain's bihag :
                                                Kishori Amonkar.
                                            
                                                A man walks with a door
                                                along the city street;
                                                he is looking for its house.

                                                He has dreamt
                                                of his woman, children and friends
                                                coming in through the door.
                                                Now he sees a whole world
                                                passing through this door
                                                of his never-built house:
                                                men, vehicles, trees,
                                                beasts, birds, everything.

                                                And the door, its dream
                                                rising above the earth,
                                                longs to be the golden door of heaven,
                                                imagines clouds, rainbows,
                                                demons, fairies and saints
                                                passing through it.

                                                But it is the owner of hell
                                                who awaits the door.
                                                Now it just yearns
                                                to be a tree, full of foliage
                                                swaying in the breeze,
                                                just to provide some shade
                                                to its homeless hauler.

                                                A man walks with a door
                                                along the city street;
                                                a star walks with him. 
                                            
                                                Every lover is cursed
                                                to forget, at least for a while,
                                                his woman: as the river of
                                                amnesia devours his love.

                                                Every beloved is cursed 
                                                to be forgotten until her secret
                                                is trapped in the net of memory.

                                                Every child is cursed
                                                to grow fatherless,
                                                with his hand in the lion's mouth. 
                                            
                                                Who said 
                                                that waiting is a 
                                                railway station in North Malabar?
                                                That a dawn in uniform
                                                will arrive there in a coffin?

                                                Who said
                                                that memory is a fragrant window
                                                opening on ripe cornfields?
                                                That our bodies grow cold
                                                as light grows dim there?

                                                Who said
                                                that trees have ceased to follow
                                                wind's language?
                                                That we must conceal
                                                from lilies and rabbits
                                                the news of the death of love?

                                                Who said
                                                that now noons will be
                                                heavy like a drunkard's head?
                                                That evenings will have sick hearts
                                                like a lover's whispered songs?

                                                Who said that we are running barefoot
                                                over red hot iron
                                                with a fistful of childhood rain?
                                                That we will, at the end,
                                                hand over our keys
                                                to the same rain?

                                                Who said that men once dead grow younger
                                                and then they enter another Time?
                                                That all the birds that vanished 
                                                at sunrise will return
                                                when the world ends?

                                                Who said
                                                that we would understand everything
                                                with no one saying anything,
                                                but will still not share
                                                anything with anyone? 
                                            
                                                One day a lean poem
                                                reached Gandhi's ashram
                                                to have a glimpse of the man.
                                                Gandhi spinning away
                                                his thread towards Ram
                                                took no notice of the poem
                                                waiting at his door
                                                ashamed as he was no bhajan.

                                                The poem cleared his throat
                                                and Gandhi looked at him sideways
                                                through those glasses
                                                that had seen Hell.
                                                ‘Have you ever spun thread? ', he asked,
                                                ‘Ever pulled a scavenger's cart? 
                                                Ever stood the smoke
                                                of an early morning kitchen? 
                                                Have you ever starved? '

                                                The poem said: ‘I was born
                                                in the woods, in a hunter's mouth.
                                                A fisherman brought me up in his hamlet.
                                                Yet, I know no work, I only sing.
                                                First I sang in the courts:
                                                then I was plump and handsome; 
                                                but am on the streets now,
                                                half-starved.'

                                                ‘That's better,'Gandhi said
                                                with a sly smile, ‘but you must
                                                give up this habit
                                                of speaking in Sanskrit at times.
                                                Go to the fields,listen to
                                                the peasants' speech.'

                                                The poem turned into a grain
                                                and lay waiting in the fields
                                                for the tiller to come
                                                and upturn the virgin soil
                                                moist with the new rain.
                                            
                                                The girl of thirteen
                                                is not the boy of thirteen.
                                                She has died drowning in nightmares
                                                until she forgot her butterflies.
                                                She has passed through caverns of darkness
                                                leaving the lullabies behind.

                                                The girl of thirteen is forty-three.
                                                She knows a bad touch from a good one
                                                She knows it’s not wrong
                                                to tell a lie in order to survive.
                                                She knows how to fight a war,
                                                with teeth or with songs.
                                                You see only the rose on her body;
                                                but it’s full of thorns

                                                The girl of thirteen can fly.
                                                She doesn’t want to leave the sun
                                                and books just for men.
                                                Her swing circles the moon
                                                and moves from melancholy to madness.
                                                She doesn’t dream of the prince
                                                as you seem to think.

                                                The girl of thirteen has her feet
                                                in the netherworld even as she
                                                touches the rainbow.
                                                One day, sword in her hand, she
                                                will come riding a white horse.
                                                Listening to the hooves echo in the clouds
                                                you will know , the tenth avatar
                                            
                                                Alone I sit in this valley of crickets
                                                in the fog spreading like frozen moonlight.
                                                This house-gecko does not understand Malayalam,
                                                so I speak to my  glass that knows many languages.
                                                It winks at me and tells me: ‘Your time is not far’
                                                I feel like flinging it down and scream, ‘Yours too’,
                                                But I restrain myself. Instead like a beloved
                                                I raise it to my lips, and intoxicated,
                                                forget I am alone.

                                                ‘Anand re…” Ulhas Kashalkar sings an abhang
                                                in Bhairavi. Accompanied by the orchestra
                                                of the future, assuring me that death happens
                                                only in the present.

                                                Pushing open the door I had locked from inside,
                                                you and wind and rain rush in. You sit on my lap,
                                                I play you like a veena in yaman kalyan.
                                                Lightning or death can no more frighten me.
                                                I will rise again and again in your love,
                                                like the morning sun that reddens
                                                that nameless flower below.

                                                Marlon James’s novel on my settee
                                                opens by itself and the slain Bob Marley
                                                descends its pages and sings: ‘ Rise up!
                                                Stand up! Stand up for your rights!’

                                                ‘Is it the right to love?’, you ask. ‘Yes,
                                                That too is a right.  And to sing. And dream.
                                                Dreams have no constitution.’

                                                I want to live. Until the earth is covered
                                                with green feathers. Until that parrot sings
                                                this time about Ravan who was ready to
                                                die for his love.
                                            
                                                Not only the oceans,
                                                mountains too have their secrets.

                                                You will say the laughter
                                                you hear from afar
                                                is the sound  of waterfalls.
                                                No, it is seven fairies laughing.

                                                These little crisscrossing pebbly
                                                paths are ways that lead you
                                                to different worlds.  You may reach
                                                the netherworld or the world of the dead.

                                                Those wild paths that go up may
                                                lead you to the Moon or Mars or Heaven.

                                                Don’t mount those horses:
                                                The black ones will take you to the Middle Ages
                                                and the white ones to  solitude.

                                                Did you see that blue bird?
                                                It was a violinist in its last birth
                                                and that brown bird was a drummer-
                                                just as this white stone here
                                                was a star.

                                                The people here
                                                call salvation water.

                                                It is at night that nothingness,
                                                beasts and ghosts  come out.
                                                The ghosts are mostly
                                                of the White who once ruled here.
                                                Don’t be scared, they are no more;
                                                only their guns live on.

                                                Go through that tunnel,
                                                and you will reach Hell.
                                                That is where the subjects live.
                                                They have been weaving
                                                a blanket for centuries.
                                                When it is done, this place
                                                will come to an end.

                                                This posture of the earth,
                                                lying on her back,
                                                eyes closed , knees in the air,
                                                is an invitation.
                                                You cannot refuse it
                                                nor accept it.

                                                None who came here has gone back;
                                                and, as for her,
                                                she  never  parts her legs.
                                            
                                                Some kinds of love are like flu.
                                                First you sneeze, your body aches all over
                                                you are hot outside and inside.
                                                It subsides after a week of nightmares;
                                                now you are in forgetful repose.

                                                Some kinds of love are like smallpox.
                                                You wonder whether
                                                what you see on  your skin
                                                are blisters or gooseflesh.
                                                Your body is red-hot with love
                                                You may survive it, but
                                                the pockmarks remain.
                                                You carry those scarred memories
                                                on your body until you die.

                                                Some kinds of love are like cancer.
                                                You take time to diagnose  it.
                                                The pain starts too late.
                                                By the time she is already
                                                someone else’s.
                                                The drugs to stop that love-cell
                                                from multiplying in vain
                                                will turn you thin and pale
                                                like the proverbial lover.
                                                When indifference fails,
                                                a knife alone can save you.
                                                Maimed thus, you live like dead.
                                                When it spreads again
                                                death kindly tempts you from
                                                the branch of a tree, a river,
                                                a tall balcony or a small bottle.
                                                Love survives you.

                                                Some kinds of love are like madness.
                                                You are lost entirely
                                                in a world of imagination;
                                                your beloved does not even
                                                know of your love. .
                                                You murmur, sing, laugh, quarrel
                                                and roam around, all, alone.
                                                Neither shackles nor electric shocks
                                                can tame it, for, it is no disease,
                                                but is a state of dream;
                                                hence it lives among the stars.

                                                The sweetest love is
                                                the unrealised one,
                                                like Radha’s.
                                            
                                                Don’t look for the way
                                                to heaven in holy books.
                                                Ask instead the extinct plants
                                                and beasts.

                                                Orphans know it;
                                                some sparrows too.
                                                The blind know it;
                                                some sorrows too.

                                                It is not those in golden crowns
                                                that attain heaven,  but
                                                the mad women with their
                                                tiaras of leaves and rags.
                                                Then too the ripe jack fruit leaves
                                                drunk with the evening breeze
                                                playing their copper  lyre
                                                as they float and fly,
                                                herds of clouds who have
                                                lost their shepherds,
                                                and dust soaring up from waste-heaps
                                                with dreams of gold.

                                                There is a coral tree on
                                                each step to heaven;
                                                with their thorns
                                                they put to trial every century of man,
                                                ask for the numbers of the
                                                slain and the maimed.

                                                We will have to leave back
                                                all the  beliefs we had held dear;
                                                our answers are denied entry.
                                                On the way to heaven are
                                                the dense forests of the questions
                                                we failed to ask on earth,
                                                the rushing cataracts of
                                                instincts we ruthlessly suppressed,
                                                our silent selves that we had
                                                abandoned on the wayside
                                                to please someone.

                                                Since there is no Time here
                                                our hair does not turn grey in its slow fire,
                                                years do not leave their
                                                plough-marks on our face
                                                knowledge does not weigh us down.
                                                No desire that hurts, no hope that scalds .

                                                There are no doors that are only half-open,
                                                no complaining graveyards,
                                                no souls screaming for a body to be reborn.

                                                Here we take our baby steps against
                                                the dance of death, we boldly sing
                                                the songs we were scared to sing.

                                                Heaven
                                                is nothing but
                                                the life we never lived,
                                                and are still scared of  living.